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Got a question for everyone
« on: February 10, 2012, 02:50:40 AM »
Things are getting MASSIVELY aggravating here. Not SP here, home here. So, to help me avoid, removing some teeth, what do you guys do to calm yourselves down when you get angry with someone?
Seeing the world through a child's eyes is truly a unique experience. It helps you to retrieve that sense of awe, magic and wonder that you lost as you lost your innocence. Tell me, when was the last time that you thought of those childhood dreams? You know, the ones that you used to spend all your time wondering and fantasizing about? Have you forgotten them so easily? Have you forgotten what it felt like to see something for the first time, to see the magic in the mundane? Everyone says you should take the time to 'Stop and smell the roses'. But you should also take the time to look for the fairies, embrace the wind and enjoy the rain. Just once today, stop for a moment and look into that little piece of nature you pass everyday. Perhaps you may see something you did not notice before.

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Re: Got a question for everyone
« Reply #1 on: February 10, 2012, 07:19:48 AM »
Try to see things from their perspective. Open honest, mature dialogue with the person. Understand when you need to walk away for 5-10 minutes and put on some stress-relieving music.

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Re: Got a question for everyone
« Reply #2 on: February 10, 2012, 01:18:08 PM »
Well... I usually end up just debating more with the person.


However, sometimes the best thing is to go do something you truly enjoy alone, and do it just that. Alone.


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Re: Got a question for everyone
« Reply #3 on: February 10, 2012, 01:26:00 PM »
I kinda of end up just playing video games or listening to one song almost endlessly for the whole day. Not a very good solution, but it is one, I suppose.
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Re: Got a question for everyone
« Reply #4 on: February 10, 2012, 03:13:32 PM »
I listen to piano musics or techno(soft?) to keep a content mood. Rock music makes people more agressive when things are already heated :P

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Re: Got a question for everyone
« Reply #5 on: February 11, 2012, 11:33:26 AM »
Read a book. Even if it stresses you, it'll stress you in a different direction and cancel things out a bit. I'm sorry for the stress I've caused, I know I've been arguing quite a bit, heatedly.
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Re: Got a question for everyone
« Reply #6 on: February 12, 2012, 01:25:23 AM »
Oh don't worry Nik, it's no one online. Honestly I've been rather distant from SP for a while, IRL things are getting in the way.
Seeing the world through a child's eyes is truly a unique experience. It helps you to retrieve that sense of awe, magic and wonder that you lost as you lost your innocence. Tell me, when was the last time that you thought of those childhood dreams? You know, the ones that you used to spend all your time wondering and fantasizing about? Have you forgotten them so easily? Have you forgotten what it felt like to see something for the first time, to see the magic in the mundane? Everyone says you should take the time to 'Stop and smell the roses'. But you should also take the time to look for the fairies, embrace the wind and enjoy the rain. Just once today, stop for a moment and look into that little piece of nature you pass everyday. Perhaps you may see something you did not notice before.